Source: Corbis During my undergraduate years I, at one point, dated with the specific intention of wanting a girlfriend.
Here’s your action plan: sit down with him today at some time when you’re both settled and relaxed.
Have you ever wondered what will drive a woman to choose you over her other options?
If you’re direct and confident while others remain passive, there will be no contest – you’ll already be the clear winner in her eyes.
Then tell him that you respect his feelings, and that you appreciate the way he respects yours.
(If you don’t believe this right now, simply the act of communicating these words will have a profoundly positive effect on him and actually help create more respect and appreciation – because you get what you give!